✨ You’re Not Selfish — Here’s the Truth ✨


The truth: boundaries = healing, not selfishness.

Hey Queen!

Hi Queen 💖

Have you ever been called selfish for leaving, for setting boundaries, or for finally saying NO?

I hear this from women all the time, and I want to tell you the truth: you are not selfish.

In today’s new podcast episode, You’re Not Selfish: The Truth About Healing After Toxic Love, I’m breaking down:
✨ Why abusers (and even family) weaponize the word “selfish”
✨ The truth about protecting your peace after toxic love
✨ A quick script + somatic reset to stop the guilt spiral

And if you ever freeze up in those moments when someone calls you selfish? I’ve got you. My brand-new Copy.Paste.Peace Scripts give you ready-to-use responses for co-parents, toxic exes, family — anyone trying to guilt-trip you.

They’re normally $37, but because you’re on my email list, you can grab them today for just $7

Keep shining!

XO
Christy Jade

113 Cherry St #92768, Seattle, WA 98104-2205
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Christy Jade

Hi! I am a narcissistic abuse recovery coach that helps women find peace and freedom! I host a podcast called "Narcissistic Abuse Recovery" and I also teach yin yoga. I love what I do!

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